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Saturday, 6 July 2013

How To Avoid Being Rejected By A Woman



I’ve seen quite a few emails from other dating companies recently giving out FOOLPROOF methods for eliminating the possibility of a woman EVER rejecting you.
Frankly, they’re all shit.
So, to make sure you get the right information rather than some voodoo magic trick to hypnotise women into becoming your dirty sex slaves…
…I thought I’d give you the truth about how to avoid rejection from women.
So here it is:

The 1 technique that will guarantee that you will NEVER be rejected by a woman again, is:


Never talk to a woman again.
Seriously.
That’s the only way.
There’s no other way.
If you plan on talking to any women over the course of your life, eventually, you’re going to meet one who isn’t attracted to you.
There’s no set of lines, routines, techniques, structures, methods, or tactics that will prevent a woman from saying ‘No.’
None.
Anyone who says there is a magic formula for avoiding rejection is trying to sell you snake oil.
There is no way of avoiding the eventual “Sorry but I don’t like you in that way” because the array of reasons that women have for not being attracted to you is so vast and infinitely complex that you can’t help but missing some woman’s criteria at some point.
Here’s a list of reasons that my very beautiful and very close group of female friends have told me way they’ve rejected guys in the past:
- He was too confident
- He wasn’t confident enough
- I didn’t like his shoes
- He was drinking the same drink that my ex boyfriend used to drink
- I’d just eaten cheese cake and felt fat
- I saw him talking to this bitch I new from high school earlier that night
- I was too attracted to him and didn’t trust myself around him
There’s no logic to it. There’s no rationalise. There’s no 5 steps that will guarantee you that she’ll be grinding in your lap at the end of the night.
Women are human beings.
They all have individual desires, experiences, emotions, and feelings.
They’re complex creatures that have their own agendas and own plans and if you don’t fit in with them, they’re not going to want to be with you.
Sorry to be the one to break it to you but it’s the way of the world.
This doesn’t just work for women. This 1 foolproof technique can be transferred to ANY area of your life.
If you want to avoid rejection at work, quit your job.
If you want to avoid rejection by your friends, cut them all off and never speak to them again.
If you want to avoid rejection by your family, tell them all you’ve become a monk and move to another country.
Foolproof!
To avoid all kinds of rejection, stop chasing your dreams, never state your opinion, don’t stand up for what you believe in, hide your true feelings, never pursue your passions, lock yourself in a room, and never speak to anyone, ever again.
It’s the only way.
Sure, your life will be frustrating, painful, unfulfilling, unrewarding, lonely, boring, and unsatisfying, but at least you’ll never have to risk being rejected.
If you ever plan on living a life that is remotely rewarding, happy, and free, you have to face the possibility that someone, somewhere, is eventually going to disagree with you and reject you.
Becoming free, open, happy, and confident, doesn’t happen when you learn to avoid rejection.
It happens when you become OK with the idea of rejection and live your life, despite what other people think.
So, if you’re fighting the evils of rejection, you have two options here:
1. Lock yourself inside your bedroom and never come out. Don’t talk to anyone, don’t do anything you love, don’t pursue your dreams, and DEFINITELY don’t flirt and play with beautiful women.
2. Become comfortable with the idea that you will eventually be rejected and do what you want anyway. Stop letting the possibility of rejection prevent you from living the life you want and live a rich and fulfilling life.

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