pick up artist guide

SHOULD YOU ADOPT PICK UP ARTIST TECHNIQUES?

Well, you can if you want, but just be aware that they’re going to do more damage than good.

Here’s why:

If you’re learning and attempting to implement pickup structures, routines, and techniques, then you’re going to be thinking about them when you’re with a woman.

You’re going to be stuck in your head instead of focussing on the most important part of the interaction:

The woman right in front of you.

Women are attracted to Men who make them feel the way they want to feel.

If you’re stuck in your head trying to come up with the next thing to say or the next technique to use…

…you’re not going to notice how she’s feeling or how she wants to feel.

If you’re not paying attention to how she feels or how she wants to feel, how can you ever be the kind of Man who helps her experience what she wants?

If you’re learning lines, routines, techniques, or structures to pick up women, then you’re going to miss all the clues of how to pick up this specific woman.

If you’re not 100% present with the woman in front of you, you’re going to struggle to be able to give her the experience she desires.

I’m not saying that you can’t seduce women with routines, techniques, and methods. It’s just that it’s going to be a total shot in the dark because you’re not paying attention to what she desires.

So, you can learn them if you want. But you should be aware of the choice you’re making.

Here it is in plain English.

Would you rather:

-       Walk up to a woman and randomly shoot off into the dark, hoping that some of your tricks hit the right target?

-       Walk up to a woman and be able to see, clearly, everything that you need to do to be the kind of Man she desires?

Your choice, but I know which one I would choose.

Quick exercise to use this concept:

Go out to a night club, find a comfortable seat and put your arse in it. Look around you at all the people and see if you can work out what they’re currently experiencing and what they want to experience.

If you can’t work out how they feel or how they want to feel, then it’s probably a great indication to why you’re not getting the success with women that you want.

If you can do this, great. Now, go over to a woman you find attractive and help her feel the way she wants to feel.

If the approaching side of things is holding you back, follow this link to help you overcome it.

Don’t use any lines, routines, structures, or techniques. Simply give her what she wants. See how much easier this is than trying to manipulate her into liking you.